The past couple months have been rather interesting… met people… beautiful people, fun people,
retarded people… get in where you fit in…
Anyways in all this the boy finds himself in conversations that “naturally” revolve around relationships
and all that good stuff. Let me start by saying a good number of my friends are married… so you can
imagine what happens when we out and I “TURN UP” empty handed looking at them like… “nigga enjoy
your jail time”
Recently the topic was… “Asking a girl Out” at least that’s how I remember it was asked. Will tell you for
free... the guys looked confused… I will use myself as the first example. I do not remember asking a girl
out on a “date”! At least in my mind it wasn’t a date… it was more like a “lets kick it” kinda thing… we
hang out and before I know what’s going on... I am in a relationship.
This continued till I met a different kinda girl…
Anyways, I got to asking dudes if they remember ever asking any girl out to be their “Girl Friend”.
Personally I am not sure how the question should be asked…
1. Will you be my girlfriend?
2. Should we go steady?
3. *get down on one knee* can I be your boyfriend? (wonder what this nigga would do when he
plans to get married)
I was happy when I realized that I wasn’t the only guy who found it hard to recall how they ended up
with a girlfriend or how she accepted his proposal if one was ever tendered… as guys, I think we prefer
that scenario… it comes with a disclaimer…
“Hey if you can’t remember when I asked or how I asked… then I guess we technically aren’t dating”
So….
He sets out to replenish his harem *joke?*
When a guy can put a date to an event… he no longer has an excuse… no reason to be seemingly lost…
none of all that “I never asked you” type bullshit…
Talmbout:
“what’s understood aint got to be said”
We have so warped this dating exercise to suit us… and only a truly “bad bitch” can hit that reset button
and bring a nigga back to his senses. It’s gotten so bad that women who now find they are emotionally
in too deep are reluctant to ask the questions…
1. What are we?
2. What are we doing?
3. Am I your girlfriend?
Truth is… if you made the dude ask you to be his “girlfriend” in the first place as opposed to going with
the damn flow them questions will not come up… it would have been understood from jump-street.
Then again, I can’t blame you… the fear of losing something seemingly great or over-complicating
a ‘relationship’ by asking questions can have the best of us feeling like we are stuck between a rock and
a hard place. But I tell you this… ask that nigga what you guys are doing… make him define it. He may
not like it but if he’s into you he will do it and see if you won’t feel better for it… If he refuses to, then...
well…..
Peace and Love
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